Some Nice Email
Because I’m always whining about the odd email I get (don’t ask about the guy who wrote in inviting me to belt his ass, but only if I emailed him back before his very short deadline) I thought it would be good to share one of the nice ones, too. Heather writes:
I’ve always had a really hungry spark for spanking. For a while, I’d been hinting about it to my beautiful caring partner (of 4 years) but when he occasionally did it, it was in jest and never what I really expected. I’ve also tried watching a spanking porn movie but it was so vicious and targeted towards the fantasies of men, it was a real turn off.
In a moment of self (very out of character!) I searched on the web and came across your site. Its been such an amazing journey of discovery. I’ve read through the entire archive and it feels so liberating to know I’m not alone. The articles on how to ask for a spanking (while continuing to be a feminist gal and respected in a relationship) gave me confidence to approach my partner.
It started off a little awkward, the first few times he was simply doing it for my pleasure. (He’s so caring, bless him!). But now its starting to turn, he’s enjoying it more than I could have imagined! Getting creative with piece of household equipment, and ignoring my very half-hearted “oh thank you, that’s enough”. He’s even started reading this website with me. Yum.
Our relationship has taken a giant step forward and it feels like I’ve let a giant skeleton out of my closest. Something I have always been ashamed of is now something we celebrate!
Now isn’t that fun? Thanks, Heather!
Heather sounds much like me in the beginning of my/our journey, even with the SO spanking her for her sake.
Now we are in a full time DD/Ds relationship and have never enjoyed each other more.
Your site was one I often frequented when I was first exploring as well.
Thanks
Hey!
Just wanted to let you know how much I like your site- a lot.
Also…
I have a question.
Am I the only one that always wants to type http://www.spankingblog.cum?
Just seems, oh, right.
I will agree with Heather and Jayda, your site has really opened up a lot of opportunities for my husband and I. He is vanilla and I was a closet spanko for the first 15 years we were married, we are approaching the bliss of a full blown DD relationship, but it is a slow process. His comment the other night gave me hope, “I am sorry we didnt realize this aspect of our marriage 20 years ago!” Of course maturation and the web have gone a long way in helping us see we are one of many! I love hearing others that finally realize thier true needs with thier partners, the sooner the better!! Thanks Bethie and SpankBoss!!
Amen to that Heather!