Bondage Caning Pose
I always enjoy these bondage poses (this one is from Wired Pussy) where there’s a menacing cane (this one looks more like a biblical “rod” to me) looming over the helpless bondage model:
Let the caning continue!
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man i think i must have just really started off on a different foot than most.
my first caning experience was with a toy i bought specifically for the purpose (i should have know better i guess)
prettypurple acrylic, and i think 3/8 in diameter… it was not like anything i’d ever expected. (though after i had a couple, i really did like it)
my Master got a rattan cane for my visit to him, and the biggest shock, i think was the distinct PAUSE between the strike, and me feeling it. that was something that didn’t happen as obviously with the acrylic cane.
is the cane in that picture really so bad? i’m not try ing to be .. you know. snarky. i’m just trying ot get an idea from people who really do play all the time.. movies can be deceiving…
mikki
mikki,
I’ve had a fairly wide range of canes, and I can say that personally I prefer wider, thuddier canes. The reason for this isn’t that the pain is less but that they are less likely to cut. However it’s very difficult to tell from a photo how severe a given cane is. Some look like walking sticks and do very little damage at all, while some look wimpy and draw blood and leave welts and bruises that mark for weeks. There are a just a *lot* of variables.
Bailey
I’ve had a good deal of experience with the rattan school cane, and the one in the picture appears to be the traditional 3/8″ thick. (By the way, I’m happy to say that a young lady who periodically feels the need for corporal discipline will be reporting to my house Sunday evening and will be caned quite severely.)
Mikki – I adore canes. We have several, at least two about that sort of width. As for whether it’s really so bad – I’ve had a range of experiences from so soothing and relaxing I fell asleep, through deeply sensual and erotic, to hard enough to leave marks that stay for quite some time, to actual cuts – all different sessions, but all experienced with the same cane.
I’ve never actually experienced a cane, so it’s interesting to hear the perspectives on it. I’ve always been prety afraid to try it, having been regaled with too many tales of broken skin and even permanent marks and nerve damage. I wouldn’t want to try unless I knew for a fact that the guy had extensive knowledge and experience with using a cane. What do you do when they don’t? How can two inexperienced people best become familiar without injury occuring?
Lilly Lee – the way Dave got experienced with a cane was through practise… on pillows and the like. Ideally, you need a fabric that shows where the cane is landing, and just practise until you can land it where and as hard as you want. When Dave started caning me he took it gently at first becase a human has lumps and bumps that a pillow doesn’t! I rather appreciated him taking it gently because it was completely new to me too! I have a couple of marks that have taken a very long time to fade – but they were right in the crease between my bum and thighs and wouldn’t really have been noticable if I’d gone swimming. Yes, I have been cut with a cane – three times now (in about 4-5 years – I usually get caned once or twice a month). Twice were due to a cane stroke landing too hard over a previous hard stroke, once was a cane stroke landing on a small bruise (the bruise was nothing to do with spanking or caning, btw, but the result of an inconsiderate commuter. Grrr.) – and none of them were severe enough to need more than a swipe of witch-hazel followed by tea-tree.
In my forties and early fifties I was caned in my home about ten or twelve times by a lady who was extremely skilled with the use of that device, which I consider the Rolls Royce of spanking implements. I videotaped each of these sessions with a camcorder on a tripod, beginning each session at the point on the tape where the previous session had left off. She visited me perhaps once or twice a year. Each time, I was bent over the back of a straight-backed chair, either nude or nude from the waist down. I would say that my tolerance for the cane was quite a bit less than what I have seen on any number of videos, particularly the F/M videos. One thing that really did strike me was the phenomenon someone referred to above, i.e. the “lag time” between the impact of the cane and the pain itself. I would have stripes afterward, and in the coming days they would spread out into general bruising; I imagine the longest the marks were detectable was about two weeks. I have caned perhaps a half dozen ladies, and have tried to incorporate what I learned from my “teacher.” You have to proceed with caution and gradually determine where the limits are. On one occasion I was caned by an English lady who played the part well, but just didn’t understand that it’s really a cooperative venture to be enjoyed by both parties. She landed the strokes one after another, with barely a pause in between. The result was that the session was over in a matter of seconds, which was very unsatisfying. The way you get to a good caning is the way you get to Carnegie Hall–practice, practice, practice.
Terry,
the lag time shocked the hell out of me the first time i felt the rattan. it was an odd thing, to hear it land, and think (in the at very brief space) oh… well that wasn’t to bad.. just before the fire-and-ice feeling hit.
i do love it, though, i will readily admit. *smiels*
and my heaviest marks lasted about two weeks too. since he was leaving and we wouldn’t be together for quite a while, he deliberately gave me marks to last, and last, and last… i was floating by 8, and incherent and babbling in ecstacy at 15..
it’s a remarkable implement, i just wondered if my experiences were common or not. *smiles*
Thanks for all the advice and info. :-) Does anyone have recommendations for a good starter cane? What kind of material, what thickness, etc. would be ideal for beginner practice use?
Lilly Lee, the standard “school cane” is 3/8 in diameter, 36″ in length, with a crook (J-shaped) handle. It is essential that it be rattan and not bamboo. I recommend a site called Canes4Pain, which has a great variety and lots of explanation as to the characteristics of each kind. The lady who runs it calls herself Whypdancer, and you can e-mail her with any questions you may have. I found her very responsive, and bought a traditional school model from her, which I will be using on a young lady’s bottom six hours from now. Needless to say I will report further after that happy event.
Lilly Lee – I’ll second what Terry says about it being rattan. Rattan comes from a reed with fibrous stems, bamboo comes from a hollow grass. This means they tend to split differently if they break – bamboo ends up with razor sharp edges, rattan doesn’t (the one time a rattan cane has broken on me the last inch or so came off very cleanly).
If you’re in the UK, Quality Control and Spanking Tools both do very nice canes
I received a 36-stroke bamboo caning about 9 weeks ago…its quite a severe implement, it did leave very small cuts(lines), and turned my bottom completely black (amazing) for a few weeks. It was a bit shocking and a bit scary, but very beneficial, and fufilled a long term caning fantasy, after 4 years of trying with oter types. still show minor lines and a hazy glow over entire bottom….Will the hazy colorish glow fade ? Most likely report for additional meetings, but concerned about severity.