Kinky Internet Flirting
Is there anything more fun than flirting on the internet? I mean, it can be frustrating, too; don’t get me wrong. Especially when things go well, and flirty play turns to something more serious, only your exciting new person is a thousand miles away and it’s become clear to both of you that they need a lot more spankings (or whatever) than they’ve been getting. Been there, done that. It can turn out well. Doesn’t always, though.
“Flirting on the internet.” Why I am thinking about this? It’s a phrase that jumped out at me from an AshleyMadison review. People have been doing it for a quarter of a century now. Kinky people more than vanillas, I think possibly; I mean, how many of us spanking-obsessed people have resorted to online forums, dating sites, and social media to find someone of similar inclination? It’s getting rare to find somebody who hasn’t done it.
There’s really no way for internet flirting to go wrong. If you spend a few minutes or a few hours with a clever funny person who gives good chat, that’s never time wasted. Sure, if you’re too goal oriented, and for you the whole point is a quick kinky hookup, you may be frustrated in cases where that’s just not gonna happen. Maybe she turns out to not even be kinky, so the chemistry falls short. or maybe your kinks just don’t match. But it’s usually fun, so where is the downside?
On the other hand, this is the era of the ubiquitous webcam. There are limits to what you can accomplish with webcam cybersex, but if your internet playmate is feeling frisky, those limits are surprisingly wide. They might end up giving you quite a show, especially if you’re giving back as good as you’re getting!
Not too long ago I saw a forum story (it sounded true) about a guy who had been having good luck on the dating sites. His theory was that in just a few weeks, he’d fallen in two or three professional camgirls who were having a bit of busman’s holiday larking around for fun, or maybe for self-promotion.
According to this guy, the girls were were video chatting with him from kinky bedroom setups, with lots of BDSM toys and gear on display. They’d tease him with self-bondage and sexy poses. “What would you do to me if you found me like this in your bedroom?” That kind of thing.
I know a lot of you aren’t old enough to remember how much less fun we all had before the internet. Truly do we live in an age of miracles!
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Love all kinds of adult artwork (as a spanking artist). I really like these sexy cos play, manga style toons as well. The internet has given us so much in the way of, online anonymity, especially when it comes to sexy play in chat rooms and one too one DM/PM chats with social media. I have replicated some scenes with a spanking theme, based around this quite a few times now. This particular post hits the nail right on the head, thanks for sharing it 😍
Pete