New Blog With Spanking
Thanks to a post by The Boss over at The Collar Purple, I’ve discovered Saucy Baggage, a new blog with lots of nice postings about spankings and “bedroom D/s”. (The site has another name, but I’m going with the blogspot URL because I don’t need search engine hits from kids searching for help with their homework.) I like the blog a lot, but I confess I was chuckling at Claire’s outrage:
We had quarreled earlier in the day and the matter was simmering on the back burner. A suddenly tells me to get rid of the sour face. Sour? I thought it was expressionless indifference! No sooner had I muttered some form of disdainful retort than he SLAPPED MY BOTTOM IN THE STREET! This happened once a couple weeks ago, as I mentioned in an earlier post, but then it was late at night, on a dark and deserted street, while tonight we were in full sight of everyone. There is no misunderstanding that public discipline is strictly out of the question. I was and am mortified, he knows it was horrible for me and is pretending it’s no big deal.
Of course it’s no laughing matter if negotiated limits were exceeded, but the way things work around here, that bottom slap would have been more than justified, and the resulting outrage would have been (from my perspective) a bonus. Sour faces, indifference, disdainful retorts — I’m surprised there wasn’t more spanking when she got home!
Dominance, even of a gentle mostly-bedroom variety, isn’t easy to turn off just because people might see. Since Claire does ask for tips, here’s one: If public discipline is to be strictly off limits, perhaps it would be best to be sweet and pleasant while in public? {grin}
I’m looking forward to Claire’s promised thoughts on the continuum between 24/7 vs. bedroom D/s, and on how the two can sometimes blend into each other in subtle ways.
The author of the blog has just mailed me and told me that the actual name of her blog is Cliff Notes. TheBoss and I got it wrong and will correct it when we upload later this evening.
Best Blessings,
O.M.G.- SpankBoss, now I am cringing with embarrassment at having published that little scene at all! I never expected to click on your site and have those words staring me in the face. But I DO appreciate your comments, really, and in retrospect, I guess I did deserve that — just NOT IN PUBLIC!
I assure you there was in fact more trouble at home, but we have successfully …”renegotiated” our limits.(until next time)
p.s. Invidia: it doesn’t really matter what it’s called since the link will take anyone to the same place. Maybe better not to distract kids anyway…
*G* I can imagine some of their teachers’ expressions if they use anything on Claire’s blog for revision or homework *l*
Just put a link to you on mine, a little belatedly.
This is too funny, Spankboss! It’s your wit that keeps me coming back to your blog, though the pretty tails help, too! =)
..”negotiated limits”.. damn! i knew i forgot to do something. *sigh* ;)
Just wanted to say that limits ARE limits. Doesn’t matter what the behavior is or where. Glad to see that you are willing to negotiate some as they definately can change with growth. Peace!