Why Do I Spank Thee?
Neko over at Letters To An Angel just put up a very nice detailed post on the reasons for spanking his angel. Just an excerpt:
And that’s the final reason I spank you, dearest angel. Because it makes you feel submissive. Because it makes you happy. Because it turns you on, and because it turns me on. Sometimes I spank you because I feel like it, because I want to be in control. Sometimes, I spank you because you want to be made to feel submissive. Sometimes I spank you because you’re a brat, and you need to be kept in line. Sometimes I spank you because it gets you wet. Each and every time I do this, I do it with love. I do it because it’s a part of us both. I do it because it’s part of what makes our relationship work.
Thanks to Vikki for spotting the link.
what a great letter! thanks for linking it!
Reading that blog makes me feel empty. Makes me know what I’m missing. :(
Acapella – think of it as something to aim for, instead of a reminder of what you don’t have. I’m a very fortunate man, but I spent a lot of time looking for my angel.
Thanks for the kind words, SpankBoss.
Neko – I all ready have someone, I just can’t bring myself to tell them all of my desires. Maybe you have some advice for that? Or SpankBoss, perhaps?
I love this person with all my heart so leaving them is not an option. And I don’t think he’ll discriminate but I’m not sure. I’ve told him about my spanking fetish but downplayed it alot. I’m just very embarrassed.
Acapella, can you contact me at my email address? I’d like to ask you a couple of questions re: your comments. I’d be glad to discuss this with you, but I’d rather get more information before doing so. After all, giving advice on only half the information is a little hasty, IMHO.
Neko
Thank you so much for offering advice! An e-mail has been sent. :)
Acapella, I wanted to ask you to email me about your questions but due to our computer problems I couldn’t.
I’m grateful Neko stepped up in the meantime. Thanks, Neko!
We’re hoping to have things back on track very soon and I’d love to hear from you when we do. :)