The Pain Of Extra Orgasms
My almost monomaniacal focus on M/f spanking and BDSM imagery here at Spanking Blog sometimes leads to regrettable gaps. With a few exceptions (like this one) notable for their rarity, there’s not much “femdom” art to be seen here, even though there’s lots of it out there and much of it is thoroughly excellent. Sometimes the same artists we love for their M/f spanking art also do femdom art that’s just as good. Kamitora (aka Paper Tiger) is a fine example. He’s just as likely to line up spanked men (see above) as women, and no matter how much pain they may suffer, their helpless erections and ejaculations prove that they love the same painful games as our beloved spanko women.
We all know how pain and pleasure mix and become inseparable. A lot of spanking people really enjoy how aroused and excited a spanked woman often becomes — it can make the sex pretty incredible! But female arousal is hard to show in BDSM art. It’s a lot easier with femdom porn, because a bound or spanked guy with an erection is an obviously-happy guy, even if he’s suffering terribly. If he’s spurting jizz everywhere, so much the more so!
And then there’s the whole set of BDSM games around orgasm control and forced orgasms, especially repeated ones. The line between sexual stimulus and actual pain gets thinner and thinner (for many people) the longer they have been aroused or the more orgasms they’ve had. This makes jerking off a bound man a serious tool of torment, especially if he’s already had an orgasm or two. He may not even be able to come again, but he can’t help being erect and sensitive and vulnerable to every painful teasing whim of his mistress lover!
Tools and toys make the game even more fun. There are a lot of really good pocket pussies for sale these days, like the ones on this Hot Cherries list. Guys buy these because the sensation is more exquisite than their own palm-and-fingers can deliver, but dominant women like them because, like vibrators and other sex toys, they make it less work to keep a guy hard and helplessly suffering unlimited amounts of painful pleasure or pleasurable pain.
How long can a skillful dominant keep a helpless or obedient man hot and horny and erect and suffering? Well, we’re made of flesh and blood, subject to the weaknesses thereof. It certainly depends on the man, his youth and vitality, and the extent of his sexual desire and excitement. But I have seen reliable accounts of men who don’t normally come more than once a day having several orgasms when teased this way. In the hands of a professional dominatrix who has been paid for the night, there’s really no telling how long the game might last, or how sensitive a dude’s cock is going to be by the time she bores of the game.
Make no mistake. When carried to extremes, this game is every bit as tortuous as anything you can do with a whip or a leather strap. Have you ever noticed a woman shy away from any stimulation in the moments after an orgasm? Have you taken ruthless advantage of a bit of bondage to not let her? It’s the same game, just with slightly different topology.
Art credits, top to bottom: Submissive man caned to orgasm is by Kamitora. Supine chained man who just had his third helpless orgasm into a pocket pussy is by Hanarito. The guy spurting through a cock sleeve is by Cra4. Upright and very erect suffering bound dude is by Sneedham. Bonde man sweating through a Tengu orgasm (not his first) is by Nashimo. Bent over man being fingered and wanked is by Yuguraniru.
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