Hand Spankings Can Hurt
I was amused to see Pandora Blake “dancing with trolls” in the comments section of her Dreams Of Spanking blog; she took on with professional politesse a commenter called Bacchus who was derisive about an OTK hand spanking delivered to one of her male models as part of a punishment scenario. I’m not 100% sure the commenter was trolling by design, but with phrasing like “The idea is to cause him pain, not give him a thrill. Does she like his pee-pee on her dress?” and “the idea is to cause him pain, use an implement” the effect was purely troll-tacular.
As Pandora rightly points out, hand spankings can hurt plenty. I’m a lazy top and I often prefer to use an instrument for greater effect (more better wiggling!) with less effort, but it’s a preference, not a law of nature. What say you, Spanking Blog readers? Is there one among you who is willing to go out on the “hand spankings don’t hurt” limb with Bacchus? Because I think that’s a foolish assertion, likely to end in tears in a universe that has any justice in it.
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Oh me, oh my, oh dear. Oh dearie my indeed.
I know I don’t have a patent or a trademark on using “Bacchus” as a web handle, even if I have been doing it since I started ErosBlog in 2002.
So all I can do is hasten to assure anyone who might have thought otherwise that the “Bacchus” who is trolling Pandora’s comments so valiantly is NOT me. I would never.
Is he kidding? I’ve met tops who could make me say mercy with their hands alone. And I’m no light player.
The most hilarious thing about the whole exchange was that right on the end of his most recent, hastily-backpedalling comment claiming he never said any of the stuff he said, he admits he hasn’t even seen the video he’s bashing. I just. I can’t even :)
Erica, I’ve seen the devastation your bottom wreaks on spoons. I take your testimony in this matter as conclusive! ;-)
Pandora, really? He didn’t watch the video? You gotta love people on the internet who want to shit all over things they imagine they might disapprove of if they could actually be arsed to view ’em…
I wonder if maybe he’s one of the people in the spanking community who hates, fears, and mistrusts the presence of male spankees (and male-submissive spanking) in it? That was some infantilizing language he used about David.
Yeah, that seems likely. When he’s left positive comments he’s been keen to specify – eg “I love the all fours position – FOR FEMALE SPANKEE SCENES”. Heaven forbid anyone would think he’d been enjoying looking at a dude!
In my 40 years in this lifestyle hand spankings are used as a warm up but even then hand spankings can an most times do hurt if the Dom/ mistress wants them to
If you have a sub that’s been spanked a lot it may take more of a hard wack to get there a hand only spanking is use mostly for beginners getting there first spanking
It all depends on the two Dom/ sub. Involved in the spanking
I am amused at the notion of introducing your troll to one of those buff leatherdaddy types who headline some of the gay sites at Kink.com like, say, Bound Gods. I’ll bet it wouldn’t take the dude too long to admit that, yeah, it actually is possible to inflict pain and punishment with an OTK hand spanking…
I like handspankings, OTK or otherwise, because you can control the force and impact quite well and it’s a rather intimate affair. But yes, they can definitely hurt, too. I’ve had subs who actually preferred the strap or something like it to my hands.
I fear hand spankings almost more than anything else, except canes and Spencer paddles. Hands can hurt very badly.